Book Gift Baskets for Women

 

GETTING YOUR GROUP STARTED 

Book clubs generally need between about 5- 15 people to be successful. More often they start from a core group of 3-4 friends or acquaintances, who ask around and find some others - friends of friends, coworkers, friends of coworkers, etc. Even with a small starting group more people will pop up from unexpected places once you get going and tell other people. If you really need others outside of your wider circle of friends and acquaintances, you could ask at your local library or bookstore, put notices up on local community bulletin boards or put notices in local publications i.e. community newsletters, school, clubs, church or work notices etc.

MEETING LOGISTICS

When?
Five weeks apart seems ideal, as monthly seems to come around too quickly. Between 4 and 6 weeks is best. Try and select a regular night or time that remains consistent and suits everybody. Decide on an end time and try to stick to it. Discussions tend to go on and on and on if you let them!

Where?
Most book clubs have rotating hosts. Each member takes a turn hosting the meeting at her home. If there are around 10 or so in your book club you only have it at your house about once a year. It pays to keep a casual record of who was host each month, as you can easily forget whose turn it is. Other options are to use cafes, restaurants, book stores or libraries.

What's to Eat?
Do you want just light nibbles and wine or coffee or do you want to go all the way and have a whole meal? Some groups have 'bring a plate' shared meals, even matching the food to the theme of the book. 

CHOOSING A BOOK 

Make sure you all agree in principle with how broad or narrow your selection criterion will be. Do you want to focus on a particular type of book or genre, or cover a broad spectrum? You can choose from best-sellers, classics, historical fiction, chick lit, non-fiction, biographies, science fiction or a bit of everything? It can be a sensitive issue, if somebody suggests a personal favorite and it gets criticized by everybody. So be careful about sarcasm and devastating low blows about other peoples taste! 

The cost of buying individual copies of books can be lessened by selecting older books and if planned ahead the members can get them out of the library, from a secondhand bookshop, or borrow them. Many publishers or bookshops will offer a discount if you are buying a quantity of the same book. You can also join a book loan scheme sometimes run in local areas by community groups. Agreeing on the book to read is generally the biggest problem.

A GREAT DISCUSSION

It is important that you decide early on what you want to get out of a book club. Your core group needs to discuss and set some parameters of the style or tone of the book club. Intensive literary discussions or light chats work well for different groups.

Many times the discussion just flows naturally from your enjoyment of the book. Read our list of 10 discussion topics or try one of these methods to initiate deeper discussions.

Choose a conversation leader. This could be the host for the month, or perhaps another rotating member. The leader needs to be aware of each member's different styles of discussing - some people have no problem giving their opinions and find it hard to hold themselves back while others need to be encouraged! It is a good idea, early on in the life of a book club, to discuss what each person thinks is their own style in a discussion - the louder, more extroverted ones don't generally mind the occasional reminder to hold back, if it is done in humor.

Discussion Questions/Reading guides You can often get discussion questions off the internet for a particular book. Try the discussion questions here or on publisher's websites. Don't fall into the trap of using discussion questions that make you feel like you are in a literary exam. They are only meant to be conversation starters and help focus your group's thinking about a book. 

Leader sets discussion topics. The leader (the host or the person who chose the particular book) could choose some favorite passages in the book to start the discussion and have some basic discussion questions ready to get it going, A bit of research about the author or background to the book helps. Emailing the others before hand with some question starters is a good idea.

Individual preparation. As preparation each individual chooses a favorite passage, a question about something they didn't understand, or something about the book or author to add to the conversation. Take it in turns to talk about each person's response to the book. Preparation shouldn't become too much like homework though!

Generally it is better to let the conversation flow naturally. Often the best books for discussion are the ones that polarize opinions - half the group loved the book and the other half  hated it and neither can understand why. If nobody feels particularly strongly about the book, then have coffee early and discuss something else!

DO SOMETHING DIFFERENT

Have an author night - choose one author and each member reads a different book and reports back briefly. Compare main themes or issues.

Have your book club somewhere different occasionally - i.e. a café, a restaurant, a library, on a boat, go away for a weekend retreat, go to an authors night at a bookstore..

Go to the movies, see the movie version of a book you have read - often deeply disappointing but makes for great conversation!

If you are all parents have a kids book night - Share and discuss your kids favorites.

An annual voting night. Vote for your best book/s of the year. Sometimes these are our best nights. Nobody ever agrees!

Have a Secret Santa book exchange. Each member draws the name of another to select for. Selecting a book for another person is often an interesting exercise.

Plan the movie. Decide which actors should play the roles, where it should be set and who should direct etc.

Come up with alternative endings. If the book has an ending that is a bit controversial or dull try getting everybody to write their own preferred ending.

ENJOY!

Above all have fun and enjoy the company of fellow book lovers! Reading should never be a chore.

 

 

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